This post is for all those who have stopped believing in themselves. This post is for all those who have lost their way, and are trying to get back on track. This post is for all those who once loved themselves with all their heart, but gave up because life happened. This post is for all those who are just living their lives out of monotony and boredom.
I have one question to ask. Do you want to stay like that for good, or do you want to utilize that same time doing something you love, being with that someone special, forgiving the ones who hurt us, bringing a smile on your parents’ face, following your dreams and having the ability to differentiate between the right and the wrong, and never ever compromising on your happiness.
You might think all of the above stated, are easier said than done. Yes, maybe that’s true. But is that your goal in life, to not even give it a shot? Do you not want to even try, and take a chance, and at least see for yourself till what point you can reach.
What’s going to happen, max to max? You’ll fail. You’ll fall again. You’ll get disappointed. You’ll start cursing your luck. You’ll tell yourself you don’t believe in destiny. And that nothing good will ever happen to you. You’ll shut yourself completely. You’ll go back to doing what you were originally doing, and probably blame me for telling you to try. You’ll spend lesser time with friends and family, and more time with the boring life you’ve chosen for yourself. Or you’ll just entirely give up and never fall for this trap again. (Well, it’s not a trap, to be honest. It’s called a Push, which will be explained below)
So, what next? That’s it? Your motive in life is complete? Is this the reason behind your existence? You might feel you’re being cornered and bombarded with all these questions, and shouldn’t you be asking yourself all these questions and simultaneously finding your answers too?
You are one of those lucky people in this world who is able to read this, and comprehend. You’re one of those people, who has a legit qualification, a job in hand, a family, a life partner, a house, basic resources and other necessities. You have at least 3-4, out of the listed. There are a million out there who don’t even have one of these things. You know why? Because their destiny didn’t allow that. But there’s something they have, and you don’t. Ever wondered what that is? Well, they have a fight in them. They’re more courageous in life, and have a stronger will power, than you. They didn’t choose this life for themselves. But they have this fighting spirit in them, and if that flame ever blows off, they don’t give up, but instead figure ways out to light that fire again. And that is what we lack. Well, most of us.
Goals need to build like a fire. It starts as a flame consuming all you put into it and burns hotter and hotter the more you work at it. In simpler terms, this burning fire can be labelled as Enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is one of the most powerful engines of success. When you do a thing, do it with all your might. Put your whole soul into it. Stamp it with your own personality. Be active, be energetic and faithful, and you will accomplish your object. Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm. And even if it takes a long time, don’t give up so soon. Enthusiasm is nothing more or less than faith in action. Not giving up immediately is way better than regretting later in future. Passion and purpose go hand in hand. When you discover your purpose, you will normally find it’s something you’re tremendously passionate about.
There’s a way to achieve this kind of enthusiasm, wherein you’re involved cent percent. And how do you do that. It doesn’t simply appear in your life, and drags you ahead in life. It’s something that you need to work upon in order to move upwards. And how will you work on it? It’s simple. You’ve first just got to throw away all the negativity from your life. All the things in your life that pull you back, or make you feel less like yourself. All the things you depend on to make yourself feel at peace with the real world. All the people who bring out your worst side and convince you to do things that go against your principles and values. Think about these few things and people. And ask yourself how any of it has helped you become a better person, so that you could overcome your mistakes and fears, and grow out of them to accomplish something in life. Yes, they might have helped you at that particular moment to forget whatsoever happened with you, but what then? Look at your current situation. Are you any better, or still the same? Do you see yourself doing well; do you see yourself smiling wider than the last time, do you think your life finally has a worth?
Mark my words, you’ll feel a sudden change letting go of all the negativity. Each morning, you’ll feel thankful and happy. Everything around you would seem even more beautiful. You’d suddenly feel a lot closer to your loved ones, and know why they exist in your life, and what role they’ve played, that they’re counted as your life jewels. You’d look at yourself in the mirror and feel a lot fresher and better. That feeling of having let go of negativity completely, will give you a reason to feel more positive. It’ll generate an internal push, which would make you do things, with a fresh mind and heart. Your way of talking would improve, your face would have a whole new charm, your actions would speak positivity out loud, and the result? It would be a lot more different from last time. Try.
It isn’t easy to suddenly let go of the negatives, and bring in the positives. A female bird takes several rounds to gather twigs, to build a nest for her offsprings. It takes days of hard work. But the end result? The offsprings have a nest that helps to insulate them from the cold. The bird has to fly through strong winds, and other various weather issues. Had the bird given up midway, there would have been several regrets. And that’s exactly what one needs to understand. There would be hardships, always. All you’ve got to do is, fight with yourself and focus on what makes you happy, what you want to achieve for yourself, and reach that level where you can have all that you want, and gift yourself ample reasons to smile. Trust me, my friend, when you’ll look back, your heart will be filled with joy, passion, enthusiasm, pride and so much positivity!
Go ahead, and give your life a shot! You don’t even know how long you’re in this world for. Seize each single day, and make the best of moments that you’ll remember for life. Give yourself a reason to smile, and make the right use of time, it’s way too precious, and wouldn’t wait for you. Keep pace with it, and focus! Believe in yourself, and enjoy each day like it’s your last.
“If there is no passion in your life, then have you really lived? Find your passion, whatever it may be. Become it, and let it become you and you will find great things happen FOR you, TO you and BECAUSE of you.”
Good luck, my friend.